Steven: “Hi, I’m Steven. What’s your name?”
Reggie: “Reggie. Good to meet you.”
Steven: “Nice to meet you too, Reggie. We’re in New York City, right?”
Reggie: “Yep, Washington Square Park.”
Steven: How do you like it here?
Reggie: I like it here. It’s got life, you know? The musicians, the chess players, all the students passing, this water fountain, and at night, it gets really nice because I don’t feel lonely. Kinda makes me feel like I’m part of something, even if I’m not.”
Steven: “That’s awesome to hear! Sometimes I also walk around here even though I don’t need to just to surround myself with people and it feels like we’re all doing something…how long have you been homeless?”
Reggie: “Eight years. I used to live in Brooklyn, right off Myrtle. I had a place, a job, everything I could ever wish for but then Hurricane Sandy hit, and that was the start of the downhill slide. First I lost my apartment, then because I didn’t have a place to live, I struggle to keep my phsyical and mental health in check so my boss saw that I was struggling and I lost my job.”
Steven: “We should be helping each other especially after a disaster like Hurricane Sandy. A lot of people were impacted, and it breaks my heart that some of us would just ignore those who need help…Did you have anyone to lean on after? Family or friends?”
Reggie: “Not really. My sister was in Atlanta, but she was barely getting by herself. My mom passed when I was a kid, and my dad…well, he was never in the picture. I’ve always kind of been on my own.”
Steven: “I’m sorry to hear that…What was your job before Sandy?”
Reggie: “I was a chef. Not some fancy five-star guy, but I worked in a diner. Breakfast, burgers, comfort food, mashed potatoes. I loved it because I could eat for free there and there’s something satisfying about making a plate of food and tasting your own hardwork.”
Steven: I’m actually in the process of learning how to cook right now, and I gotta say it’s not easy at all. The other day, I made egg fried rice and although it’s not as good as something you can get in a restaurant, it tastes better…Do you ever think about going back to cooking?”
Reggie: “Every day but working in the kitchen are tough, man. You need to be on your feet for hours, and my knees aren’t what they used to be. Plus, no one’s hiring someone without an address. I’ve tried, but it’s like everyone just thinks that you’re worthless out here.”
Steven: “Yeah, I’ve interview many people here and they all agree that it’s hard for them to get a job even when they have qualifications just because they don’t have a home. Personally, I would want to hire someone who is struggling to give them another opportunity if I could… what’s the hardest part for you?”
Reggie: “The noise is pretty annoying. I know earlier I said I like hanging out in the park because of everything that happens but there are bad noises like sirens, car horns, people yelling and fighting. Especially when you try to sleep, you can’t because everything just keeps me up at night. That’s one of the main reason why I want a home so I can sleep properly”
Steven: “How do you get through it?”
Reggie: “This might be silly but, I play chess at night. There’s this group of guys in the park who play every day, and they let me join in sometimes. I really don’t care if I win or lose because it’s about focusing. When you’re staring at the board, I’m just so focused on the game that I tune out the noises. Other times, I would just go somewhere else and hope that it’s going to be a quiet night.”
Steven: “I like chess too! Are you good at it?”
Reggie: (laughs) “Not as good as I’d like to be, but I can play decently against someone with no experience. I’ve been thinking about this and it’s funny because chess is a lot like life out here. You’ve got to think five moves ahead, but sometimes, no matter how much you plan, you still get checkmated.”
Steven: “Wow. I’ve never thought of it like that. That’s so interesting to think about, and in a way, it is true because life can be so unexpected…Is there something about you that might surprise people?”
Reggie: “I used to write short stories around 150 words. When I was younger, I’d sit in Prospect Park with a notebook and just write whatever came to mind. I even got a couple of pieces published in a little local magazine. I haven’t written in years, though because it feels like I don’t have much to say anymore.”
Steven: “Don’t say that because that’s not true. I bet you’ve experience a lot since being homeless and I know people out there wants to read your stories. Maybe add a bit of nonfiction so you can tell others your experience out here. I know I would read it. “
Reggie: “Thank you.”
Steven: “Have you met anyone out here that you trust?”
Reggie: “There’s a woman named Patrice who runs a food cart nearby. She always gives me the leftovers at the end of the day like hot dogs, pretzels, whatever she’s got. She doesn’t ask questions, doesn’t judge. Just slides me the food and says, ‘Take care of yourself, Reggie.’ I get hungry very easily so I appreciate her a lot. Oh and also, just being in the park, watching the shows for free is amazing because there are so many talented performers, and they don’t even ask you for money! If I had money, I would give it to them, but I don’t but I appreciate what they do.”
Steven: “What keeps you going?”
Reggie: “The people around me. The stories of others because I do what you do when I’m bored. I would walk around and talk to people and ask them about their life in general and sometimes they would tell me a story that is so similar to mine and now they have a home a job and a family so it reminds me that I can still get my stuff together and help out others.”
Steven: “Wow, that’s amazing and very smart… I do wish more people would share their stories so people out here can be more motivated and not give up because everyone deserves a good life… now, if you had three wishes, what would they be?”
Reggie: “First, I’d wish for a kitchen of my own again. A little diner where I can cook breakfast for people and hear them say, ‘This is the best dang pancake I’ve ever had.’ Second, I’d wish for everyone who is homeless to have a house, but I’m not sure how that would happen but it is a wish so I’ll let you figure that out, and my last wish, give me a second…well I’m not sure. I would probably give it away to someone who needs it.”
Steven: (laughs) “Reggie, thank you for sharing your story. You’re amazing and I wish you the best of luck.”
Reggie: “Thanks.”
When I read this, I felt chill because at the start I wasn’t sure what to expect but as the interview kept on going, I started to feel better because I have faith that she’ll recover from this based on her responses. She’s def a strong person
Beautiful and all too common story, I’m glad you shared it because when I was homeless, I wish I could have someone to talk to and reading this makes me feel like I was there
Thank you!
That ending made me really tear up, especially when she said she’ll give her third wish away. She’s a strong woman!
Yeah! I agree because I can’t imagine being out there for even a day.
Also her second wish is so selfless. Notice how she didn’t say a home for herself but rather a home for everyone who needs one? It shows that she wants to help others and I respect that
I been homeless for 2 years and I know how it feels thank God for his blessings
I hope you’re doing fine now!
the govt should have designated areas where people can wash , sleep , and eat without being harassed .
this is the bare minimum. People should not consider the homeless as worthless. They have skills, talents, and hopes like anyone else
So very true ..brought me to 😭 tears. I was houseless, living in area not to familiar to me… with my 2 children..that is when my son was murdered and my daughter had heart attack..they both passed!! That was 5 yrs ago. I’m not rite anymore but by the grace of my precious JESUS..
I hate what is happening to humanity!!!
Thank you for making this article because it means a lot to me and my family. Whenever you post, we always read it
Thank you!
Halfway through and crying. Was homeless multiple times with and without young kids due to fleeing domestic violence. Ended up in programs that have been overpriced and housing instability is still a concern.
Shout out to whoever helped her because it’s tough when you got no place to live in or sleep in but having no human interaction makes it even harder
So sad🥲 hard times for so many right now .
Imagine how many stories like Reggie’s go unheard because people assume the worst about the homeless. EVERYONE STOP IGNORING THE HOMELESS AND GREET THEM PLEASE
Beautifully written. We shouldn’t have to live in a world that is so full of need. There is enough for everyone to live a decent life.
Hurricane Sandy happened over a decade ago, and people are STILL suffering from its impact. This speaks alone about our system
I hope things in the US change for the better soon!
Yeah we really need to create more housing for people. It’s really sad out here
You all did such an amazing job for this article. One day maybe homelessness will be a thing of the past.
Yes hopefully so
This makes me emotional I have trauma from being homeless for a long time❤
Even in the “poorest” countries in the world they have some sort of government housing or subsidized path to owning a house. Running governments like a business has led the country to this lacking of housing epidemic.
we could do so much better, but I think that most of our resources are going into building luxurious buildings instead of helping the people who truly needs it
Do you transcribe the interview yourself?
Yes! I record the interview and then I transcribe it by listening to the recording
I don’t know why people say that basic housing is a right
We should have affordable housing. We should be able to connect people with family members that people can stay with until they get back on their feet
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The way Reggie compares cooking to hard work is so real. There’s pride in creating something with your own hands.
as a chef, I agree! everything tastes better when you make it yourself